Happy New Year friends. I am so glad to be back with so many things to talk about. This year is definitely going to be better than the last one. So I got a text from a friend not too long ago that made me think. “Should a married couple engage in oral sex?” I remember few years back, when my husband and I were still busy discovering each other, asking questions and trying to get comfortable with ourselves; We saw a movie that had the major character frustrated because ‘his wife would not go down on him’ and how that he had to satisfy that urge by finding an alternative outside his marriage and so on. You can guess the remaining part of the story. As much as I would have loved to narrate the whole story to the end, I don’t want to. This topic is one that has been a major point of concern especially to so many people of faith; for others it is just one of those things done for pleasure at will. In my own opinion, what God has joined together, no one sh...