Awesomeness

Happy New Year friends. I am so glad to be back with so many things to talk about. This year is definitely going to be better than the last one.

 

So I got a text from a friend not too long ago that made me think. 

“Should a married couple engage in oral sex?”

I remember few years back, when my husband and I were still busy discovering each other, asking questions and trying to get comfortable with ourselves; We saw a movie that had the major character frustrated because ‘his wife would not go down on him’ and how that he had to satisfy that urge by finding an alternative outside his marriage and so on. You can guess the remaining part of the story.

As much as I would have loved to narrate the whole story to the end, I don’t want to. This topic is one that has been a major point of concern especially to so many people of faith; for others it is just one of those things done for pleasure at will.

In my own opinion, what God has joined together, no one should put asunder. A couple exist as one in marriage and so whatever they decide to do with each other is left to them. If they decide to enjoy vagina sex, have oral sex or dislike anal sex should be their personal decision.

 

There is an argument about the psychology behind it, that for most women, sexual pleasure is guaranteed if they have oral sex. Some other women believe that it is just weird and don’t want any part in it. Some will give their partners oral sex only if they can also get it.

On the hand, research has also shown that men want oral sex more than women do. It makes them feel loved and gives them the assurance that their women find them really attractive. So many reasons for several things.

Whatever it is, sexual pleasure cannot be generalized. It is unique to every individual and by implication every couple. It is almost impossible or better still difficult to understand what things feel like for people and why they enjoy or don’t enjoy certain things.

Should a couple engage in oral sex?