The facts I gathered from the men are something.

The facts I gathered from the men are something.  As I was saying from my previous post,

They took their time to tell me first that they in fact, wear their wives out; how that their wives can testify to me of their strong and satisfying prowess and all. They were very interesting and I enjoyed their sincerity as it gave me much needed clues.

 

Men are rather simple if I’m asked only that some simple are complex.

 

Can’t my wife be wild and free for once? Was the first question put to me; I just gave a nod and made it rhetoric. If you ask me, who will I ask? He continued by saying “can’t she just throw caution to the wind sometimes and be free? You know like just be crazy"

Of course I didn’t answer any of the questions but I gathered that

This man wants an aggressive display of pure lust without having to go through all the gradualness a woman is wired for sometimes when with his wife.

REAL REASONS SOME MEN CHEAT WITH LOOSE AND CARE FREE LADIES.

 

All the men I spoke to understand that their wives go through body changes during pregnancy and childbirth that they have little or no control over, but one man was blunt enough to tell me that his wife is no longer attractive to him because of her size. He said “she has put on so much weight and she is not even doing anything about it. Eat this, eat that is all she knows” and then he took a deep breath.

ANOTHER REASON MEN CHEAT WITH THEIR WIVES’ OLD STATURE

One man was specific about his turn off. He complained that his wife didn’t feel the same sexually after their second child; and that he has tried to stay put, but he wants more than what he is getting from her. The second baby has made the place wider than it used to be. Too loose for him. He avoids his wife even when she tries to initiate sex.

 

 

Another man said, “Women should be more creative in their approach to sex, it doesn’t have to be boring”

 

EXCUSE FOR CHEATING WITH MANY WOMEN.

Although, I believe this man can just teach his wife what she needs to know.

A quiet looking but playful individual told me that he is just always irritated by his wife’s attitude towards him. “She has suddenly started to think that she is my mother, arguing this, nagging that” He is pissed off and wants nothing to do with her. He is not aroused by her anymore no matter how hard she tries.

 

A certain man said that it can be stress and lack of ability by the couple to handle it properly. When a man is stressed, so many things don’t appeal to him and if his woman does not understand,  it will only cause more stress.

Most men blamed everything on their wives and other things but themselves.

Wisdom is however, profitable to direct. We love our husbands and they love us right back. Some men are just impossible just like some women are. We should consider some of their complaints, do better and then also expect them to be better.

These problems are not peculiar to special sets of people as it can be anybody. I advise that issues should be discussed and resolved between couples.

Couples should take steps back to the times before their problems and try to make corrections.

Health problems should be properly treated by experienced doctors. In cases where doctors can’t help, counsellors and/or therapist may be of great help.

It is wrong to continue in silence. It will destroy the marriage and also the individuals involved.