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    Something took me out to one of the parks around on a playful Saturday and as I sat down on one of the iron chairs out there, trying to mind my business while still in touch with the peaceful environment; I found myself listening to a group of women talking about their husbands. Was I eavesdropping? No, actually I was not; they were carried away and were not aware of how loud they had become.   They were five altogether, all beautiful looking and chubby women. You could tell at a glance that they are a bunch of rich women with their glowing skin and the expensive accessories they had on. From their chats, I discovered that they all planned to be there to get together. In my opinion they had missed each other. Now the gist is that they were consoling the one that can be called slim amongst them and also advising her to focus on herself and her two children. She was told to forget about her husband and his cheating, insensitive nature. He is not w...

  That is how a man sent me an e-mail about how I need to talk about oral sex so much so that other women can have open minds to it; and I’m like really sir, he went further to write that many men are dying in silence or looking for it elsewhere. I got another mail from this woman that said her life has been easier since she found this secret. So many things that my eyes have read as feedback from my last post is rather surprising.     Guess what, not one of them commented on the post publicly. Then it comes to the fundamental problem of people detecting a problem and being  shy to talk about it and trash it out. For very good reasons I have been in a position where I felt that all I believe in is the right and perfect way to go about everything. My husby also has very good reasons to behave and carry himself in a certain way because he believes it’s the best. That however, did more harm to us than any good as we just carried on for a long w...